611 Grimes Street, Red Oak, IA
The Faces Of My Family
"Family faces are magic mirrors. Looking at people who belong to us, we see the past, present and future." -- Gail Lumet Buckley
Wednesday, September 23, 2026
Sunday, September 6, 2026
DRAFT - Bessie Peterson Bengtson 1866-1912
Bessie Peterson is said to have been born in Norway on October 18, 1866.
Bessie told her children she came to Red Oak and Nyman, Iowa area from Stockholm, Sweden to help start Mission churches. We have not been able to locate a church in the area that she was a charter member of or even an early member.
It is believed that Bessie had two sisters in the Red Oak area, but that upon her marriage to Claus Bengtsson, her sisters would have nothing further to do with her.
The first record other than Bessie and Claus' marriage license that we find on Bessie is in the city directory of St. Joseph, Missouri. They are living at 1818 Lafayette and Claus works for the Burlington Route. We can follow their movements in St. Joseph until 1906 with the city directories.
Bessie was admitted to the St. Joseph State Hospital on September 20, 1909, with epilepsy. Her records there state her name as Bessie Benson born in Norway. That she belonged to the Congregational church and was a housewife, and the mother of three children. Bessie was a patient at the State Hospital until her death on September 11, 1912 at 6:30 am of tuberculosis. Bessie was buried from the D.E. Heaton Undertaking Company on September 13, 1912. (the record at the funeral home also has her name as Bessie Benson,) Church services were held at the First English Lutheran Church in St. Joseph. Place of burial was Oakland Cemetery, now known as the Ashland Cemetery. Bessie is recorded as Bessie Peterson in the death records at First English Lutheran Church.
When Bessie entered the hospital the children were placed in the "Home of Little Wanderers" Orphanage on October 1, 1909 - just west of the hospital. Her daughter, Ebba, remembered walking over to the fence to watch her mother march with the other patients as they went to dinner. Bessie would tell the children, "Now you kids be good." Ebba said her mother was placed in the hospital because they could no longer cope with her seizures at home.
Before Bessie's death in 1912, Ebba went to live in Essex, Iowa with Charles Bengtson, a cousin of her father. Later, Paul also went to live with Charles, and Helen stayed with the Victor Bengtson family.
Ebba was the only one of the children at attend their mother's funeral. She and Charles Bengtson went by train to St. Joseph and she remembers the weather being warm and her mother being covered by glass.
For years the truth of Bessie's epilepsy was kept a secret. In those early years, this was something people were ashamed of and this may be the reason Bessie was admitted to the hospital under the name of Benson. This may also be the reason she was buried from the church under her maiden name.
Saturday, September 5, 2026
DRAFT - Jonas Petter "John Peter" "J.P." HENDRICKSON
With this we wish to announce that the Lord God, in His all-wise counsel, has called home our beloved father,
JONAS P. HENDRIKSON
on July 22, 1927, at the age of 91 years, 7 months, and 4 days.
He was born in Kristdala, Kalmar County [län], Sweden, on December 18, 1835. He was confirmed in Sweden and entered into marriage there in 1921 with the widow Mrs. Johanna Lovisa.
In 1862 he came to this country, and in 1868 he came to this place, Essex, Iowa, from Red Oak.
In 1877 he joined the Evangelical Lutheran St. John’s congregation here. He remained a member of this congregation until his death.
Our father had suffered for several years and therefore could not visit the Lord’s house, but God had given him a good memory, and he could therefore recall what he had read and heard in his younger days. As long as he was able, he read the Word of God in his home.
During his final years, from 1921 to 1927, he was tenderly cared for by his daughter Hulda.
The funeral service was held first at the home and then at the church, where his pastor preached in the English language. After the funeral sermon, his remains were taken to the congregation’s beautiful cemetery, where the old and worn-out earthly dwelling was laid to rest to await the morning of the resurrection.
We hope and pray that one day we may meet our dear father again on Jesus’ other side.
Peace be upon his memory!
The grieving children.
DRAFT - Bengtson Family Reunions
1939 Bengtson Family Reunion
1941 Bengtson Family Reunion
DRAFT - Claus Edwin Bengtson 1866-1844
Claus Edwin (Gustafson) Bengtson was born October 6, 1866, in Swarji, Sweden. he died on July 22, 2944 at the home of his daughter Helen in St. Joseph, Missouri. Claus is buried in Ashland Cemetery in St. Joseph. His age was 77 years, 9 months and 16 days.
Claus married Bessie Peterson, who was born in Stockholm, Sweden on October 18, 1866. Bessie died in 1912 in St. Joseph, Missouri, and is also buried in Ashland Cemetery.
Claus came to America to avoid the draft in Sweden. (He served 1887-1889). He changed his name from Gustafson to Bengtson and settled in St. Joseph, Missouri. (NOTE: he had relatives in Essex, Iowa whose last name was also Bengtson.) No port of entry is known for Claus. Bessie came to America with a church group from Sweden to help establish Mission churches in Red Oak and Nyman, Iowa. She met Claus while he was working as a hired man for John Hilt. They were married in St. Joseph and stayed there. Claus worked as a packer in a clothing store. he was called Charles in St. Joseph.
A picture of Bessie and 2 other young girls was found in a trunk belonging to Bessie's daughter Ebba Christina. On the back of the picture were the names "Bessie, Lena and Clara". Ebba Christina knew that her mother had 2 sisters, one of whom lives somewhere out on the West Coast of the US. Lena and Clara may be these 2 sisters. Ebba never met either of her mother's sisters.
Claus had relatives living on farms around Essex, Iowa whose last name was also Bengtson. When Bessie died in 1912, 2 of her children, Ebba Christina and Paul Edwin, went to live with one of these relatives. Ebba said that Samuel and Ludwick Bengtson were her father's uncles. Eric and Charles Bengtson were sons of Samuel and it was with Charles that Ebba and Paul lived. Ebba was also married to John Elmer Hendrickson in Charles' home.
Claus and Bessie's third child, Helen Alivia stayed in an orphanage in St. Joseph for a while after her mother died.
Military
1887-1889 • Sweden
Served in the military 3 July 1887 until 2 Dec 1889. He entered the army from the district of Redvag and served in the district of Ulricheham in Vastergotland.
The first record we find of Claus in St. Joseph, MO is 1899. They (Claus and Bessie) are living at 1818 Lafayette and Clause works for Burlington Route. This is also the year their first child, Ebba Christina is born. Ebba was born July 11, 1899 in the home of her parents.
In 1900 Claus and Bessie have a son, Paul Edwin, born August 17.
In 1901 Claus and Bessie have a daughter, Helen Alivia, born December 19th. The family now resides at 622 S. 19th Street in St. Joseph, MO. Claus works for the Nelson M. Packing Company.
In 1906 the family lives at 2014 Angelique in St. Joseph and claus works as a janitor for the Board of Trade Building.
Bessie was admitted to the St. Joseph State Hospital on September 20, 1909. Bessie was a patient there
DRAFT - Ebba Christina Bengtson Hendrickson 1899-1991
Notes from Ebba Hendrickson (undated and anonymously written) found in the genealogy information of Karen Stephens Swanson:
When her mother Bessie entered the St. Joseph State Hospital in St. Joseph, MO, Ebba, Helen, and Paul entered the orphanage (Home of Little Wanderers) just west and across the field from the hospital. Ebba was 10 years old at the time (appx. 1909).
Ebba was 13 years old when her mother died on September 11, 1912.
Ebba recalled the 3 children walking across the field to watch their mother march with the rest of the patients. Bessie would say, "Now you kids be good." Ebba said they were very good to the children in the orphanage, and she did like it there. The old ladies in the kitchen would let her help them make bread.
Ebba was the only one of the 3 children allowed to attend their mother's funeral. They went by train to St. Joe. (distance from orphanage to funeral home was only 2 miles) Bessie was in a funeral parlor (Heaton) and covered by glass. Ebba says being covered with glass was a common practice.
Ebba went to live with the Bengtson's in Essex, Iowa and stayed with them until her marriage. Paul and Helen left the orphanage also. Paul went to Charles Bengtson and Helen to Victor Bengtson.
1910 census - inmate Home for Little Wanderers North 28th Street. Age 10.
1915 Iowa State Census - Can't locate
1920 census - married to John Elmer Hendrickson
Ebba didn't know if her mother had a middle name and only heard her called Bessie. Peterson was her last name.
Clara Peterson (Bessie's sister) lived in Sioux City, IA but never tried to help the children.
Bessie had 2 sisters who wouldn't have anything to do with her after her marriage to Claus. (Clara and Lina? don't know married names or birth dates)
Monday, April 6, 2026
A Life Marked by Loss: The Story of Rosannah Hanley Alter
Some stories don’t just sit quietly in a family tree—they demand to be told. This is one of them.
This is the story of Rosannah Hanley Alter.
Rosannah was born on September 30, 1888, in Wentworth, Ontario, Canada, to Henry Harry HANLEY and Mary Jessie PATTERSON. She was the second of thirteen children.
In 1892, at just four years old, Rosannah moved with her family to Marion, Grant County, Indiana. It was the beginning of a life that would be marked by both responsibility and loss.
Ten years later, in 1902, her mother Jessie died at only 32 years old. Rosannah was just 14.
I can’t help but wonder what that moment looked like for her—the second oldest child, and the oldest daughter, suddenly stepping into a role no child is ever prepared for. Caring for younger siblings. Holding a household together. Growing up overnight.
In the days that followed, her father, Henry, took Jessie’s body back to Canada for burial. While there, he met and married his next wife in 1903.
During that time, Rosannah and her siblings remained in Marion—without either parent there to care for them. Whether by necessity or circumstance, Rosannah was left to carry far more than any child should. It’s difficult to imagine what those days and weeks must have been like for a 14-year-old girl suddenly responsible for a household of children, navigating grief while trying to hold everything together.
When her father returned, the family dynamic had already begun to shift. With a new wife came more children. The family kept growing. So did the weight on Rosannah’s shoulders.
In 1905, at just 16 years old, Rosannah gave birth to a baby girl, Rose. Six months later, that baby was gone. The newspaper account is brief and clinical—but heartbreaking:
Marion Daily Chronicle
November 6, 1905
Coroner is Investigating Child's Death
Six Months Old Child of Miss Hanley
Found Dead This Morning
Coroner Davis is investigating the death of the 6-months-old child of Miss Hanley, daughter of Henry Hanley, corner of nineteenth and Brownlee Streets. The baby was sleeping with its mother last night and once during the night awakened its mother. The mother found the little girl dead with her face in the pillow of which she had been sleeping. The funeral of the child will be held from the residence tomorrow morning at 10 o'clock. Interment in the IOOF cemetery.
We know today what they did not then—this was likely what we now call sudden infant death syndrome. But knowing that doesn’t soften the loss.
She was 16 years old, and she buried her child.
In 1908, at age 19, Rosannah married Claud Alter. Four months later, she gave birth to their son, Romain Howard. Two years later came George Marshall.
Then, in 1912, another son—Joseph. He lived only eight months, dying from chickenpox. Another loss. Another child buried.
In 1913, almost exactly one year after Joseph’s death, Rosannah gave birth to her youngest son, Albert Louis. By then, she had known more grief than many experience in a lifetime.
At just 34 years old, Rosannah died of “complications of disease.” She left behind young children—just as her own mother had. Her oldest son, Romain, was 14. The same age Rosannah had been when she lost her mother.
The parallels are impossible to ignore.
A daughter who became a caretaker too soon.
A mother who buried children.
A life shaped by loss, repeating itself in the next generation.
These are the stories hidden between names and dates— the ones that remind us that every branch of a family tree once carried real lives, real burdens, and quiet resilience.







